Friday, July 17, 2015

Words of Truth Move Mountains

Being a writer is something as a kid that I wanted to do. When other kids were dreaming of being an astronaut, firefighters, nurses, and ballerina (even though I took ballet for 13 years), I was dreaming of being the next great author. Having ADHD this was not really an ideal career path for me. I took medicine and went to special therapy as a kid, but the symptoms really have not gone away as I have become an adult. This has made my dream of becoming a great writer harder than I want it to be.

Writing is something that takes time to learn. It takes a lot of practice and even after years of perfecting your writing, you must continue to improve. My mother always told me that the best way to become a good writer is to first become a good reader. "Read everything and anything good you can get your hands on", she told me growing up and even now, "The more you are exposed to good writing the better you will become." At first, I did not take this with a grain of salt and read books that were more entertaining than good writing. It wasn't until college when I truly  realized if I wanted to be a great writer, and not just a good writer, my catalog of books need to change. 

I went to a small liberal arts college (Coker College) in rural South Carolina. This was the best thing I could have done to be surrounded by great minds and an even greater education. I had excellent English professors who pushed my reading and writing to be what it is now. A lot of writing comes with criticism, this I got plenty of being in a small learning environment. I remember going into one of my professors office as a desperate junior wanting to become a better writer. She recommended to me the same advice my mother gave me years before, but gave me a list of books to read in order to become a better writer. This list included: Anne Lamott's Bird by Bird, Stanley Fish's How to Write a Sentence and How to Read One , and various classic works from Austen to Hardy. I tackled reading these in preparation for an independent study I would be taking with her in the spring of my senior year. 

Taking this advice to read these works were some of the first steps I took in order to improve my writing style. Learning how to edit was the next skill that I developed during this independent study. Being able to edit another's writing helps improves one's own writing. It gives you an insight of what to look out for in your own writing. If you can efficiently edit someone else's work, your own will benefit when you edit it. 

These are some of the tips I give to young people, especially young black women, who may have to try harder in order to achieve their dreams. I am still currently working on my writing, and hope to one day make a living off of it. Until then, I want to write for the the love of writing. In my time I may not write the next great novel; but I want to make change happen with my words. With my words I want to speak the truth. To all the young writers keep writing, keep developing your writing, and do not let anyone tell you, you can't do something. Through words of truth we can move mountains and create writing that changes lives and hopefully the world.

Sunday, July 5, 2015

Unplugged Loser

This past weekend was the Fourth of July. My twitter, Facebook and Instagram pages was filled with bar-barques, parties, and people being very patriotic. I did all of these things, but I did not post on my Facebook or Twitter how awesome my Fourth holiday was.

Does this make me a loser in the sense of today's world? I do have all of the latest social media but I don't really use it. My Twitter has less than 200 tweets and my Facebook hasn't been updated since late May. I am officially an unplugged loser. I have all the proper tools to have a 21st century social life but there are still things I am uncomfortable sharing. I am an introvert I do not like talking to others in person let alone sharing my personal life online.

I can do this (writing a blog) because I love writing! Writing a post for a blog does not have to involve my face or my friends and family being shared with the world. The people who read this blog unless I send it to someone, do not know my face.

In this world of oversharing we have started to look more the same than unique. Everyone seems to post the same things and if you do not then your life is boring. No my life is not boring I am just not posting it for the world to see.

It's like the new Taco Bell commercial promoting it's new nacho wrap. The commercial talks about our world of sharing that we have gotten to the point where we overshare everything and it's becoming too much. Then there is the new Chinet commercial which talks about remembering what social used to be like, showing people talking together with their phones put away. Why can this be the norm again?

Being an unplugged loser may be my truth, but I am proud to not be posting everything that happens in my life. I do not want to see the world through my computer screen. Catch up with friends via Facebook, but at my local bar. Instead of sharing moments online why not share moments in person? Share love and hope, instead of what you have for lunch today.